Someone gave us a great suggestion of laying out as simple as possible to everyone our adoption time line and when money is due that way people can know how much we need and by when so they can be praying and helping if they feel led to! I agreed that this was a great idea so I will try my best to do this for you below!
~We have already paid $650 for half of our home study fee.
~Our next stage or set of things we need to get done as soon as possible is to finish the home study ($500 left to pay), submit our i-600a form to USCIS ($670), get our FBI fingerprints done ($160), medical visits($60), yellow fever shots($240) and marriage/birth certificates notarized($30) and apply for passports ($110). We need to get these done before we go on to get our referral of our baby girl!
~Our goal is to get these things done by the end of February! We will need approximately $1,900-$2,000 to be able to get these things done.
~The next big step after that is getting our referral of our baby girl! In order to receive our referral we have to give $1,000 to our lawyer. We are hoping to receive a referral and be ready for it by the end of March.
~Once we have our referral it will take a few months for us and our lawyer to get all our notarized documents, forms and all the necessary steps in order for our lawyer to schedule a court date for us. During this time and before we leave we will need to raise up another approximately $12,000-$13,000 before we can leave for Uganda to go get her!
~The last $2,500 approximately that we will need is after we come home with her. That will be to cover the cost of post-placement visits and u.s. adoption finalization!
SUMMARIZATION: We need to raise up $3,000, Lord willing by the end of March to be able to get our referral of our baby girl! After that we will need to raise up $12-$13,000 in order to leave and go get her and bring her home! After we return home with her, we will need to raise the remaining $2,500.
Our goal and hope is to raise these up and get everything done in enough time to go and get her before the courts close for a month. I am not for sure but I believe they close from the middle of July to the middle of August. Of course, we realize this may not be what happens and we may have to wait longer. However, this is something we are shooting for so we can bring our little girl home sooner rather than later!
If any of you have frequent flier miles you would like to donate, that would also help so much! Our plane tickets will cost us around $3-$6,000 for both of us to travel there and back and if we could get enough flier miles donated that could take $3-$6,000 out of our adoption funds that we need to raise!
It's kind of weird and humbling to have to share these details with you all and ask for your help but we simply know we cannot do it on our own and so we are trusting God knowing that He has called us to this and will not leave us! Thank you for your support and even more for your prayers! We love you all!
We are personally doing as much as we can by saving, using our tax refund and doing fundraisers to help bring our baby girl home! We already have our first fundraiser going on which is the candle fundraiser. Look out for our next fundraiser within the next month or so! The next fundraiser will be selling adoption T-shirts that have a great message and spread awareness of Africa and orphans just by wearing the shirt but also with each purchase of a shirt, you help us be one step closer to bringing Isabella home! Another thing we are going to do is have a HUGE yard/garage sale in the spring and we are going to ask all our friends and family who may have things they don't need anymore and would like to contribute to the yard sale and hold a big weekend long sale and hopefully raise up lots that way! We have heard of other adoption couples doing this and raising hundreds and some thousands by all the donations of items they received! I am also starting to do cakes again however I am only doing orders for 50 servings or more right now except for family because I really don't make much money with cakes under 50 servings! The big cakes are what give me the most profit! So if your in need or know of someone in need of a wedding, birthday, special occasion or holiday cake for 50 or more people please let me know! All the money for my cakes will go towards our adoption!
Love to all,
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I hope things work out quickly for you! Seriously, July is such a quick timeframe :) Do you have to receive your I-600a form and FBI prints back before accepting a referral? I know those 2 documents are taking a very long time right now.
ReplyDeleteAlso, we are always interested in different countries in Africa to adopt from as we know we want to continue to adopt from Africa in the future. I certainly don't want you to take this question the wrong way, but using a lawyer makes me nervous on the ethics question. After all, we all want to truly be able to believe that our children are really orphans. I know there is lots of corruption in the adoption world and there is no 100% sure way to confirm that something corrupt didn't happen somewhere. So I was wondering if there are any ways that you can rest assured in Ugandan adoptions that the children really are orphans? For example in Ethiopia they do not allow abandoned children adoptions as there is no way to confirm that the child is truly an orphan.So they require the birth parents to come to court and sign away their parental rights.
Great question Amy! There are LOTS of ugandan adoptive families on here that could probably answer your question way better but from what I have heard Ugandan government prefers right now for you to go through a lawyer. Even the families that are using agencies as the middle man have a lawyer too, the agency just finds the lawyer. The key is finding a good one! God has blessed us very much in bringing us to a lawyer that is good and has a heart for orphans and loves the Lord. We have heard nothing but awesome things from everyone else about our lawyer so if you would ever want to go and adopt from Uganda you need to make for sure first to find a really good lawyer with lots of great references and one that would find you a true orphan and do it all ethically! I hope the best for you and your ethiopian adoption and if God ever calls you to Uganda there are literally TONS of families on here including us now that can help you!
ReplyDeletep.s. the july timeframe is just a goal...it could be longer...it just depends on how fast we raise the money up! :0)
Oh i forgot to also mention Amy that our lawyer and the other lawyers of families I know adopting from Uganda do an extensive search on each child to make for sure they are a true orphan, which is really nice to know! Also another great way to ensure your adopting ethically and getting a true orphan is by finding a good babies home! There are many christian babies homes and ones that churches or pastors have started! One we are looking into was actually started by a pastor and his wife! If your ever more interested in Ugandan adoption let me know, there are some great sites and people I can tell you about!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the answers :) I am afraid of Ethiopia even having corruption and just never knowing for sure. I was just curious if you are using a lawyer what difference does that make. I know even using an agency there is no guarantee.
ReplyDeleteWe don't know where God will lead us next. Right now we are thinking maybe Rwanda or Uganda or maybe even Ethiopia again - we just don't know and we have plenty of time to find out :)
Thanks again for the information :)
FYI airfare is SUBSTANTIALLY cheaper in Sept. Not that any Mama and Daddy want to wait a bit longer...however, we had to go twice this summer due to some unfortunate events and in Sept we ( us + our two bio boys + the 3 return one way tickets for A J D) travelled for the same amount as the two of us did (+ the 3 one way tickets for the return trip which we had to cancel) in June/July. just a thought....we were really shocked and thankful.
ReplyDeleteand we have the name of a good lawyer...the one we used...for Uganda if anyone else is interested in adopting from Uganda
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